My tunez of ATTACHMENTS-RELATIONS-LOVE-VICES

It plays a dominant role in r career.......
   It is a part n parcel of r life.......
      It can witness many lives....
          It is d mst important column in the mental profile of an "ENGINEERING STUDENT"
              Millions n billions of hearts are slaves for it

 n that Is "RELATION"

.....                                  ........ what I say is an "ATTACHMENT"

I  tune friendship as
                                "THERE COULDN'T BE ANY THING ,ONE CANT BE WITH OUT IT"
                                     n that is just a unique relation...

There are many types or relations.....frndship,love, a sexual relation indeed......
                

                                     The most difficult thing i believe is to set a relation.This is one n only task which involves an indirect conversation b\w 2 hearts.The person may be a boy or a girl.Once if v commit with a relation to somebody,that becomes a permanent file in r heart.I mean that cannot be removed or even changed or modified n now it is responsible for tuning ur whole life.....
                                  
I got a  bewildering dream few days ago.I remember just a part of it...it was like.....
                                      A soul was confused standing between hell n heaven as they looked alike.The first guard invited him inside for mental peace,liberty n choice.The other guard offered thrill and ecstasy.As the tempted soul entered the second place,the guard locked the door and smiled,"this is how we lure the people inside".
                                    That dream really taught many lessons about life n its relations.Language is inefficient to express them.

I struggled  4 many days 2 get the basic reason for deterrence of one's mental peace...The final answer of my heart is ATTACHMENT. yeah .....ye  "ATTACHMENT IS A MAIN DETERRENT TO MENTAL NPEACE".the deterrence here is a kind of fear or a power blow to one's ego.
On the other hand ,it is true that a relation makes a person satisfied and happier worth more than  billion dollars.So i believe that "UNHEALTHY ATTACHMENT WITH A HABIT IS A VICE".Non attachment brings wisdom n freedom.

To make a healthy attachment or for pure commitments in a relation(I stress again whatevr the relation may be),the heart n soul of a person must be ACTIVE,EMOTIONAL AND RATIONAL.

While developing an attachment one should think of 3 aspects
"Is my attachment of obsolute perfection or is a hobby?"
"In long run will it lead to happiness(mental peace)or otherwise?"

"Am I deviating 4m my goals or my unique character?"

N If u get justifiable answers to these questions,then ur relation is concretely fabulous.....!!!!